6 Ideas for Having Balance in Life

By Hal Neff


Everybody goes through a period where life feels out of hand and imbalanced. It's perfectly normal! But how can you achieve a balance in these busy occasions?

Understanding what balance truly means is the very first step toward developing a balanced way of life. Life harmony does not always mean giving equal amounts of time or attention to each part of your daily life. That's the huge myth!

Life balance is about learning when to give a little more effort, when it's time to call it quits, and when everything feels just right.

These 6 tips will help you reach a better balance in life:

1 . Make time for you. Realize that you are important and valuable. Taking care of your own happiness (and sanity) is an important part of creating a balanced life. Even though for just two hours every week, put everyone else's needs aside and concentrate on you!

* Take a candlelit bubble bath while having a glass of wine and catching up on your favorite Hollywood news. Or perhaps, maybe simply take your dog to the park on a sunny afternoon. Do whatever helps you unwind and enter a mindset of total relaxation.

2 . Strive for a healthy lifestyle. Both exercise and a conscious diet are essential in order to stay healthy and happy. Put aside 30-minutes every week to exercise. Your workout can be anything under the sun, as long as it keeps you active.

* When eating healthy is a challenge, avoid taking unhealthy food into your home. You can't be tempted if it is not around the house. Not only could it keep your heart healthy and your waistline under control, it will promote healthy eating habits in your children.

3. Leave work at the office. There is a reason you have a work schedule: your own employer is just willing to pay you for a certain period of time every day. Do your family a favor and keep work at work. Avoid overworking yourself if there isn't a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

* If you discover that there aren't enough hours in the workday to keep your duties, find a way to strengthen your productivity while at the office. If this shows to be fruitless, explain your situation to your employer. He may be willing to pay you for an extra hour every day or reduce your workload.

4. Make time for love. Rekindle the love by doing thoughtful actions. Bring home a candle in her preferred scent, send flowers to the workplace, or perhaps hire a maid so your wife may spend more time doing the things she loves. Invest quality, uninterrupted moment with your spouse.

* Simply watching television together isn't enough. Send the children over to grandma's house for a weekend break and plan a romantic getaway. If you are on a tight budget, plan a romantic camping trip. Nothing says romance like 2-days in the wild.

5. Live within your means. When your financial situation are causing you stress, it's time to reassess your financial budget. Create budget cuts in order to proactively work towards attaining your financial goals.

* Eliminate obvious splurges, such as cable tv upgrades and pricey cell phone plans. Cut down on your power bill by turning down the thermostat and doing laundry less frequently or in non-peak hours.

* As a final resort, you may need to sell your home or downgrade to a less expensive rental. Sure, it's great to have granite kitchen countertops and vast acreage, but can you go without? You certainly can. Live within your means and really feel the comfort it gives!

6. Socialize. Hanging out with friends enables you to relax and have a few laughs. Try to meet up with friends at least once every month. Head out to dinner or host a get together in your home.

* If your spouse is jealous, double dating is a great opportunity to include him in your social life.

Leading an unbalanced lifestyle is one of the leading triggers of stress for professionals. Inability to deal with stress can cause numerous health issues, such as weight gain, migraines and even heart complications. Fortunately, you can be the exception. You can ward off health issues by nipping stress in the bud.

You are now strengthened, equipped, and ready to develop balance in your life! Practice these approaches each day and, one day soon, you'll feel the harmony of a balanced lifestyle.




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