Three Ways to Make Your own Dreams into Reality

By Hal Neff


All of us have a dream - a lot of dreams actually - but few think that they are able to really obtain them. Nevertheless, some people accomplish their dreams while some live lives of regret. Some are motivated and follow through, while others hold off or give up completely on their aspirations in exchange for whatever justifications they comfort themselves with.

What are the factors that make that distinction between the individual who achieves and the one who regrets?

Listed here are three easy steps you could make to help you live the life of your dreams:

1 . Motivation. Everyone has their own motivations for their dreams. Consider what drives you towards your goal. It could be monetary freedom, more spare time, or a second home in the Caribbean. Whatever it is, help remind yourself of it every day.

For example , having pictures of your dream Caribbean home hung on the refrigerator or in your office will remind you of your desire and renew your mind with enthusiasm.

* Whenever you go through inevitable setbacks or frustration, a visual reminder of your dream can help motivate you to do what is necessary to get back on the right track toward your goal.

It's also important to give yourself incentives along the way. Rewarding yourself after setting up a breakthrough, such as getting a new client, mastering a new software program, or sharing a smile with your teenager, is totally necessary to successfully following through on your path to success.

Treat yourself to a nice dinner, take the day off for a game of golf, or reward yourself with something else you like. Your own incentive will give you a refreshing break from the trials and tribulations on the path to success and provide you new energy to continue working toward your goal.

* Giving yourself a reward here and there along the way will reinvigorate your motivation with its positive result.

2 . Planning. Although creating a systematic strategy may seem obvious if you want to accomplish your goals, a lot of people ignore or downplay this process and then wonder why they are not moving onward toward their own goal. Make sure to take the time to plan your way for greater achievement!

* Once you have a broad strategy to achieving your goal, you must fine-tune all the details. Put it on paper, even if it's an emotional or mental life goal, and determine the steps essential to make that goal possible.

* Put a deadline on it. Place all excuses aside with a limited deadline for every step.

* Be realistic of your own competencies.

Developing a realistic step-by-step plan with a timeline will bring your dream to life. Setting definable little objectives to achieve on the way to your desired large aim will enable you to follow your plan through to success.

3. Action. Lastly, no dream or goal may be accomplished with no action. If you've developed your plan as recommended, you will see that there are lots of little steps you have to take on a regular or irregular basis that will further you on your road to your greatest goal.

* Your tiny steps provide you with the map to your treasure. Do something to follow your guide. Each step you complete brings you closer to your goal.

* Assess your actions and revise your own map as needed. If a plan falls through, then be adaptable to change it until you find yourself back on the path to success.

Motivation, planning and action will enable you to create and live the life you've always wanted. It may take a while, but following these steps will guide you to success.




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