True Love Tests That Stands Against Time

By Elaine Guthrie


It can be difficult to know whether you man really loves you or not. You might waste months maybe even years putting him through true love tests, just to figure it all out. Sometimes the tests might work and then other times you might feel as if you are not better in your relationship than before.

You begin to check his cellphone and count the minutes until he walks through the door. You time the minutes it take from him to get from his job to home, and if he does not make an excuse for being late, your mind begin to play games and have you thinking all sorts of things. You wonder can you trust him, or is he cheating on you with someone else. All of these thoughts can be nerve wrecking.

The questions of why you have not met his mother begins to go through your head. You wonder why you do not know any of his friends, and why he has not taken you to any of the family gatherings. People begin to fill your head with all types of nonsense. The biggest question in your mind is why has he not proposed to you? You want an engagement and you want it like yesterday.

Men know that some of the family members have big mouths and when it comes to relationships they can ruin one in a few words. He might be afraid that taking you around any of his friends is an acknowledgement that he is really in a committed relationship.

Another thought, are you allowed to use his cellphone at any time. Now, a man who does not have anything to hide, and his friends are your friends, will allow you to scroll through his phone, answer calls and read his text. If he does not you have a problem on your hands. Be careful if he sleeps with his phone, goes to the bathroom with his phone and eat with it. Trust that you are not the only person in his life, and the other woman is definitely not his mother.

Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment, but more and more marriages today end in divorce. Love and relationships are a major part of life, but for many of us the ups and downs are a mystery. Talk to your partner about what is troubling you, instead of playing games. Many times lack of communication is the problem all along.

No one wants to have to put the love of their life through a bunch of loops, but when they feel that they can not trust the person, sometimes they have no other choice. So, the things is do you ever tell your significant other what you have been doing? Well, no that is if you want to keep them. The first thing the other person will think is that you are very insecure. It you are lucky the person will continue to be with you.

However, if your love one just seems to be wanting to be left alone, you might just want to give them a little space. Try to just listen to what is going on with your partner instead of testing his love. Falling in love is never easy, but it does not have to be complicated either.




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