The burning question on every heterosexual's mind is how to make a girl like you. Brace yourself, you are about to find out. Every girl can't resist mystery, spontaneity, and creativity. That's right! These three words hold the secret to making any girl like you.The complication of this particular issue is really based on fundamental simplicity. What's ironic, these three powerful fundamental truths behave like a universal law. It matters not the geographical location, the culture, the size, or the shape. With mystery, spontaneity, and creativity, there's no need to look any further for the source of the secret to what attracts a woman.
Chemistry makes it a priority to find out what makes a girl like you. Approaching the girl that makes your heart skip a beat with the funny pick up lines you just garnished from your best mate is a huge gamble and, probably, will die a miserable death right before your eyes. A female can never be approached or dealt with like a headache. By this I mean, with a headache, any common pain killer will suffice.
Have an "I don't care a damn" attitude surround you. Be open and playful around the girl you like and don't conform to social norms if you want to say something.You will also have to play some mind games here to get her attention. So when you see this girl, just acknowledge her and nothing more. Make her feel like yes she is popular but you are not crazy about her.
At this stage, there's a need to reinforce your mystique with spontaneity. Use spontaneity as your foundation to approach every conversation, moments of eye contact, and, hopefully, and one-on-one personal time. I assure you, this will keep her continuously craving more of you, and this is a good thing. It is exactly what you want to get a girl to like you and want to know more.Now that you have got her attention and have created a thirst of curiosity, you need to seal off all your efforts with creativity. Creativity ensures that you maintain this newly found kinship. Now, the good thing about creativity is that it works pretty much like a fingerprint. It is as individual as each individual. Don't worry about anyone else; you can bring it like you. No one else can touch that and this will be one of the key things she likes about you in comparison to anyone else.
You will also have to look like a good package...one that is worth chasing if you want to attract a girl that you like. So look the part and dress to kill.You might not be the most popular guy around but being a complete recluse is not going to help. Look like a fun guy who has friends and you will have a popular girl inching towards you.They say that men have only one thing on their minds - and in your case it's absolutely true.Whether you can't stop thinking about that wonderful woman at work or your eyes keep being drawn to the gorgeous girl across the room, your crush has become all-consuming. She is all that you can think about. And now you want to know: are you all that she can think about, too?
Luckily, girls are easier to read than many men believe.Much like us guys, if a chick is into someone she will want him to know about it. After all, if he never notices her interest, she'll never get that delicious first kiss.The trouble is that, just like us, girls are scared of making fools of themselves. She would love to tell you she likes you but she's scared of misreading your signals and having you laugh in her face. As a result, she is coy about her clues; the signs are all there, but you do have to learn to look out for them.
Covert Tactic 1 - "Fake Social Proof". To the layman, the term 'social proof' means popularity (with both men and women). This tactic, first popularized in the world of persuasion and influence, involves the 'setting up' of perceived popularity. This means that if you can create the illusion that you LEAD a group (of men and women), you will come across as highly attractive.
Watch for flirtatious body language. Many girls fiddle with their hair when they're attracted to a man. Some will start stroking their own arm, neck or face distractedly, while shy girls will blush whenever you look their way.Now, let's make conversation with her. When an assertive chick wants your attention she will become loud and start laughing at even the weakest of your jokes; quieter girls may stammer or stutter when trying to speak to you.
'Fractionation' is known as one of the most effective ways to make a girl emotionally 'dependent' on a man, and therefore could result in undesirable results if used wrongly. For example, it has been known to create stalkers and psychopaths out of otherwise emotionally stable women. Use at your own risk.
Before you even go out, you have to make sure that you can be confident about the way you look in case you meet an attractive woman at your destination. If you have to make a decision between being ten minutes late for a date 'coz you had to take a shower and arriving there on time in your work clothes, by all means be late. Any woman will appreciate the fact that you took time to look presentable. When spending time with a woman, your clothes should be clean and well-pressed and you should make sure that you do not give off any unpleasant body odour. It would also help if you spent time at the gym on a regular basis.
Chemistry makes it a priority to find out what makes a girl like you. Approaching the girl that makes your heart skip a beat with the funny pick up lines you just garnished from your best mate is a huge gamble and, probably, will die a miserable death right before your eyes. A female can never be approached or dealt with like a headache. By this I mean, with a headache, any common pain killer will suffice.
Have an "I don't care a damn" attitude surround you. Be open and playful around the girl you like and don't conform to social norms if you want to say something.You will also have to play some mind games here to get her attention. So when you see this girl, just acknowledge her and nothing more. Make her feel like yes she is popular but you are not crazy about her.
At this stage, there's a need to reinforce your mystique with spontaneity. Use spontaneity as your foundation to approach every conversation, moments of eye contact, and, hopefully, and one-on-one personal time. I assure you, this will keep her continuously craving more of you, and this is a good thing. It is exactly what you want to get a girl to like you and want to know more.Now that you have got her attention and have created a thirst of curiosity, you need to seal off all your efforts with creativity. Creativity ensures that you maintain this newly found kinship. Now, the good thing about creativity is that it works pretty much like a fingerprint. It is as individual as each individual. Don't worry about anyone else; you can bring it like you. No one else can touch that and this will be one of the key things she likes about you in comparison to anyone else.
You will also have to look like a good package...one that is worth chasing if you want to attract a girl that you like. So look the part and dress to kill.You might not be the most popular guy around but being a complete recluse is not going to help. Look like a fun guy who has friends and you will have a popular girl inching towards you.They say that men have only one thing on their minds - and in your case it's absolutely true.Whether you can't stop thinking about that wonderful woman at work or your eyes keep being drawn to the gorgeous girl across the room, your crush has become all-consuming. She is all that you can think about. And now you want to know: are you all that she can think about, too?
Luckily, girls are easier to read than many men believe.Much like us guys, if a chick is into someone she will want him to know about it. After all, if he never notices her interest, she'll never get that delicious first kiss.The trouble is that, just like us, girls are scared of making fools of themselves. She would love to tell you she likes you but she's scared of misreading your signals and having you laugh in her face. As a result, she is coy about her clues; the signs are all there, but you do have to learn to look out for them.
Covert Tactic 1 - "Fake Social Proof". To the layman, the term 'social proof' means popularity (with both men and women). This tactic, first popularized in the world of persuasion and influence, involves the 'setting up' of perceived popularity. This means that if you can create the illusion that you LEAD a group (of men and women), you will come across as highly attractive.
Watch for flirtatious body language. Many girls fiddle with their hair when they're attracted to a man. Some will start stroking their own arm, neck or face distractedly, while shy girls will blush whenever you look their way.Now, let's make conversation with her. When an assertive chick wants your attention she will become loud and start laughing at even the weakest of your jokes; quieter girls may stammer or stutter when trying to speak to you.
'Fractionation' is known as one of the most effective ways to make a girl emotionally 'dependent' on a man, and therefore could result in undesirable results if used wrongly. For example, it has been known to create stalkers and psychopaths out of otherwise emotionally stable women. Use at your own risk.
Before you even go out, you have to make sure that you can be confident about the way you look in case you meet an attractive woman at your destination. If you have to make a decision between being ten minutes late for a date 'coz you had to take a shower and arriving there on time in your work clothes, by all means be late. Any woman will appreciate the fact that you took time to look presentable. When spending time with a woman, your clothes should be clean and well-pressed and you should make sure that you do not give off any unpleasant body odour. It would also help if you spent time at the gym on a regular basis.
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