Where does confidence come from?
Is it something you are just born with or are we able to grow our confidence over a period of time? Yes, it would appear that a few individuals just have it. But as someone that had it, lost it fully, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to say you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron belief in your life.
Maybe you are at a point in your life where confidence is not in the cards but that doesn't have to be the end of your efforts towards having some in your life. While knowing this is comforting, you really do have to understand where confidence comes from in the first place.
There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction.
Then, when you start to build some serious momentum from doing the little things right, you can raise the bar on your life and start going after bigger goals. Those bigger goals become more doable because you have the background and experience of doing all of the little things right. That's what confidence is really made out of. Confidence is built from knowing you can perform a task because you have done something similar before. Confidence comes from trust.
So sweat the tiny stuff. What if you fail? Take a step back and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success if you think about it. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up without ever coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until you get it right.
The little things matter.
So try something new and bring your vision back down to the micro level.
Is it something you are just born with or are we able to grow our confidence over a period of time? Yes, it would appear that a few individuals just have it. But as someone that had it, lost it fully, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to say you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron belief in your life.
Maybe you are at a point in your life where confidence is not in the cards but that doesn't have to be the end of your efforts towards having some in your life. While knowing this is comforting, you really do have to understand where confidence comes from in the first place.
There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people often overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the little details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction.
Then, when you start to build some serious momentum from doing the little things right, you can raise the bar on your life and start going after bigger goals. Those bigger goals become more doable because you have the background and experience of doing all of the little things right. That's what confidence is really made out of. Confidence is built from knowing you can perform a task because you have done something similar before. Confidence comes from trust.
So sweat the tiny stuff. What if you fail? Take a step back and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success if you think about it. In fact, the quantum leap is exactly what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something gigantic in life and fail. In reality most people will try something 3 times and then give up without ever coming back to it. But if you build some significant momentum, you'll have the confidence to try something over and over until you get it right.
The little things matter.
So try something new and bring your vision back down to the micro level.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about the experience of daily life on this earth. Make sure to check out these Positive Thinking Quotes and dive into some Be Happy Quotes to start moving towards those dreams.
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