Friendships that develop over the years are priceless. But, sometimes people find it difficult to develop relationships because they are not too sure on how to do so. Some people are overly shy or lack the confidence needed to build a relationship. Here are some general tips on how to make good friends that last a lifetime.
In order to have friends, one must make themselves appear to be friendly. Putting oneself in an environment makes it possible to initiate relationships. Those that go to college or work on the job may want to approach individuals sitting at a table for lunch. Avoid the temptation to always want to be with the "in-crowd." Real buddies like you for who you are and not for who you know.
Clubs or organizations often make a great place to formulate friendships. Sometimes individuals that have absolutely nothing in common become the best of friends. Others may find friends on social networks just by chit-chatting. Church is also a common place for friendships to develop due to sharing the same faith as a point of commonality.
Communication is so very important when starting a friendship. Positive body language along with the willingness to open ones mouth to start a conversation is always key. This can be done simply by asking someone for help. Sometimes giving someone a compliment at a time they may have needed it the most can be a great conversation starter. By the end of the conversation, a formal introduction can be made. The next time the individual is seen, facts from the previous conversation can be brought up inciting interest.
When the ice has finally been broken, it's time to initiate some type of activity. This can be playing sports, going out to eat, or doing something of similar interest. One can never develop a true friendship if it never goes beyond simple conversation. The exchange of phone numbers or an email address can be given as a means to get to know one another.
Learning how to make good friends often means not putting pressure on an individual to be a friend. Let the relationship move smoothly. Sometimes, rushing something too much or too soon can make the other individual feel uneasy or intimidated.
Loyalty is an important part of a lasting relationship. It means being there for an individual when things are going great, and not disappearing when things have taken a turn for the worst. Being trustworthy is also a great quality to have. Someone is trustworthy when they say they're going to do something or be somewhere, and they do just what they say. No one wants to be stood up; especially by someone that has been deemed as a friend. Picking up a phone is always good.
The best acquaintances are those that are trustworthy and are good listeners. One finds that those that are trustworthy are ones that can be told a secret, and keep it until the day that they die. Great listeners are ones that sit back and let the individual express their feelings without always feeling the need to jump in and offer some advice. Good friends are hard to come by, but priceless when obtained.
In order to have friends, one must make themselves appear to be friendly. Putting oneself in an environment makes it possible to initiate relationships. Those that go to college or work on the job may want to approach individuals sitting at a table for lunch. Avoid the temptation to always want to be with the "in-crowd." Real buddies like you for who you are and not for who you know.
Clubs or organizations often make a great place to formulate friendships. Sometimes individuals that have absolutely nothing in common become the best of friends. Others may find friends on social networks just by chit-chatting. Church is also a common place for friendships to develop due to sharing the same faith as a point of commonality.
Communication is so very important when starting a friendship. Positive body language along with the willingness to open ones mouth to start a conversation is always key. This can be done simply by asking someone for help. Sometimes giving someone a compliment at a time they may have needed it the most can be a great conversation starter. By the end of the conversation, a formal introduction can be made. The next time the individual is seen, facts from the previous conversation can be brought up inciting interest.
When the ice has finally been broken, it's time to initiate some type of activity. This can be playing sports, going out to eat, or doing something of similar interest. One can never develop a true friendship if it never goes beyond simple conversation. The exchange of phone numbers or an email address can be given as a means to get to know one another.
Learning how to make good friends often means not putting pressure on an individual to be a friend. Let the relationship move smoothly. Sometimes, rushing something too much or too soon can make the other individual feel uneasy or intimidated.
Loyalty is an important part of a lasting relationship. It means being there for an individual when things are going great, and not disappearing when things have taken a turn for the worst. Being trustworthy is also a great quality to have. Someone is trustworthy when they say they're going to do something or be somewhere, and they do just what they say. No one wants to be stood up; especially by someone that has been deemed as a friend. Picking up a phone is always good.
The best acquaintances are those that are trustworthy and are good listeners. One finds that those that are trustworthy are ones that can be told a secret, and keep it until the day that they die. Great listeners are ones that sit back and let the individual express their feelings without always feeling the need to jump in and offer some advice. Good friends are hard to come by, but priceless when obtained.
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