How To Know You Have Anger Management Problems

By Deborah Butler


Humans laugh, smile, cry and even get angry. Those are natural emotions that a normal human being feels. Likewise, people would really say that to you so that you can let your raw emotions out. Cry if you feel sad. Smile or laugh whenever you feel happy. Be angry if it frustrates you. On the last part, too much of anger can sometimes lead you to bad consequences. Not only you might physically or emotionally hurt people with that emotion, you might also became lost and uncontrollable. When that occurs, an anger management counseling Seattle is needed.

Whenever your best friend who you trusted most suddenly betrays you, you would really feel pain and some intense emotion from your heart. The loud palpitation might make you deaf after knowing her betrayal and your blood might began to boil as your fury is about to burst. That feeling is certainly anger. Anyone can actually feel that emotion too. And basically that is normal. However, it might not be label as normal anymore when it harms someone.

Just like this situation. Corrine was washing the dishes and suddenly she heard a loud crash from her room. As she went there, she found out that her figurine collections were shattered and her little brother, Jimmy, was holding a ball, giving her an apologetic look. Her hands were trembling as if it has an urge to wring the neck of her brother.

For sure, your answer would be stay calm and try to talk things out. That is ideal thing. However, for those people having some anger issues, that would not be their closest choice. Instead, they would immediately grabbed the hair of Lily and began beating the sister.

The most common one is expressing themselves like almost all the time in a livid manner. These people could find it hard to be calmer at expressing their emotions. When you met a person like that who keep on giving angry looks to many people and could not hold it, her or she had that problem.

Another one is their aggression. In that situation, Corrine immediately resorted to physical violence and that is typical to those individuals having this issue. Whenever they became mad, violence is the key to express it. Their aggression would even become worse once that person is in drugs or alcohol.

Those individuals having that kind of problem will have difficulty in their social relationship. Nevertheless, it still can be mended. In addition, venting out is not also the good solution since it can only add fuel to the fire. There are actually therapies which could help a person in that case.

Anger Management Therapy can be done with a group or individual counselling. You would undergo some sessions in which you would be taught on how to control your impulse, meditate, self-awareness, strategies for relaxation and breathing techniques. Counsellors will also give you some coping mechanisms during the course of therapy. With a professional and healthy support, your issue will certainly be treated.

Remember that excessive feeling of fury resulting to some violence is not normal. Therefore, seek some treatment for it. That way, life will continue to go on normally and healthy.




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