There is very little more lovely, fantastic, and electrifying than being around ladies that have something awaken deep inside them - a trip, a calling, an expedition. I have been pretty supremely lucky to have spent a lot of time with robust women - even raised by two great ones who I would do absolutely anything for - women who've got their own dreams despite all the things they are fed incessantly by our society, battle anyhow. They're completely unique in a world that's trying it's best to coaching them to be like everybody else. How awesome is that? Above everything else, women act as moment by moment integrity checkers for men, oracles even, and if you can surround yourself with a grouping of very strong girls, you will grow beyond belief, have your head lovingly cut off when you are not being the best man you could be, and you may experience life itself and its vast selection of experiences. Like the sea they change and shift by the second, feelings and thoughts swarm...let that help you in finding your solidity. They'll test you with their darkest moods and feelings - only to have them feel that you're immovable, the mountain, inevitably going to be there regardless of what and firm in your purpose. These are gifts, not hinderances. These relationships create you, but if you weaken and deflate - they will destroy you. Seek them out - don't be threatened, women can move mountains. They are to surely be treasured.
The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed nearly 180 degrees for many reasons. But oh how I have shifted within. Across the course of my life, I highly identified with strong feminine energy because I had 2 extremely strong and dynamic women in my life - my sister and my mother - who are deeply driven and proficient in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was very little and really tended to hit it off with girls better than I did with men. I took the best from my amazing dad as well, similarly as driven, loving artistic and motivated and turned into a product of my environment and nurturing.
As I went through the deep chaos of my younger years, I was "all that changes and shifts. " My moods, my perspectives, my feelings, and thoughts...I have described it many times...were like a tornado inside of me that refused to give up. Even when it did stop temporarily, back up it would storm again. Blend that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career ended and a massive mess was made. So I crashed like the sea for a while...and at last found my way to writing.
But very recently this dynamic shifted in a big way as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what powerful masculine energy really was. This hasn't only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the guys who live around me. There's an idea that has entered into my mind that has stuck with me for months now, and it's the inspiring concept of the mountain. That solidity - identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable steadiness of being absolutely grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and prepared to express your deepest passions and purpose - which is the expression of love itself.
When a man finally begins to understand this concept, I will tell you...mountains don't just move in front of him...he becomes the mountain. Whatever might happen around him swirls and yet he is absolutely calm, planted, and remains rooted in his deepest wish. To find your purpose is a great deal more than just what you do for work - it's going to be a direct leader in your life and will deepen your relationships, your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up on the planet. It absolutely did for me. As fast as this hit - bloom - unfold - open - closing the chasm - joy - honesty - integrity - tenacity through anything.
Women are like the sea. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In just a moment, a calm ocean can become a series of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your small boat wondering how on earth you are going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it implies to be alive. Why do you really think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a form of energy that surely is uniquely female and can be accessed. But those waves for men who don't understand what it truly means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked out of the their ship - I can't tell you how often I have been tossed out of my little boat or bailed before the wave hit. But give a person a purpose, and that wave starts to appear like fun. Additionally, that wave can evoke your most important purpose.
This is the part that has changed my life completely.
Every single day I sit comfortable down and write, I am absolutely driven by a variety of energy that is very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my little chair outside on my porch...close my eyes, and breathe as deep down into my stomach as I can. I find that density - that solidity - that love - that emptiness. There's this type of energy that if you focus upon it deep enough, it's almost a low frequency lull...that is incredibly deep and powerful. A wavelength that has existed far before everyone and one that willbe here forever after. I will feel it circulate through me sometimes when I am on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or take the time to run through the days events - utilizing all the amazing things that adjusted - and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing - and yet, all at the same time, I am here, fully grounded in my place - living as if I was in fact already dead.
Fear, in my heart, disappears.
There I solidly am grounded, in my deepest purpose, totally and definitely electrified by the women around me and that female energy...creating, loving intensely and open to all doubt. It's this dynamic, the one between the male and the female - and my using both - that has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, deeply changed my relations, and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I never knew existed. Floods of great people have showed up in my life and I am able to see the entire thing morphing, only to know that it will all change and pass...and that really is perfectly O.K.
The dynamics of my life in moving with feminine energy has changed nearly 180 degrees for many reasons. But oh how I have shifted within. Across the course of my life, I highly identified with strong feminine energy because I had 2 extremely strong and dynamic women in my life - my sister and my mother - who are deeply driven and proficient in what they do. I even had a female dog who was my best friend when I was very little and really tended to hit it off with girls better than I did with men. I took the best from my amazing dad as well, similarly as driven, loving artistic and motivated and turned into a product of my environment and nurturing.
As I went through the deep chaos of my younger years, I was "all that changes and shifts. " My moods, my perspectives, my feelings, and thoughts...I have described it many times...were like a tornado inside of me that refused to give up. Even when it did stop temporarily, back up it would storm again. Blend that with lacking deep purpose after my baseball career ended and a massive mess was made. So I crashed like the sea for a while...and at last found my way to writing.
But very recently this dynamic shifted in a big way as the bubbling up of my purpose came to me and I started to read, understand, and practice what powerful masculine energy really was. This hasn't only opened up my world, but has opened up the worlds of the guys who live around me. There's an idea that has entered into my mind that has stuck with me for months now, and it's the inspiring concept of the mountain. That solidity - identifying with what does not and will never change in this world. The undoubtable steadiness of being absolutely grounded in your position, a mirror to life itself, empty and prepared to express your deepest passions and purpose - which is the expression of love itself.
When a man finally begins to understand this concept, I will tell you...mountains don't just move in front of him...he becomes the mountain. Whatever might happen around him swirls and yet he is absolutely calm, planted, and remains rooted in his deepest wish. To find your purpose is a great deal more than just what you do for work - it's going to be a direct leader in your life and will deepen your relationships, your friendships, your family dynamics, and how you show up on the planet. It absolutely did for me. As fast as this hit - bloom - unfold - open - closing the chasm - joy - honesty - integrity - tenacity through anything.
Women are like the sea. They shift, change, and adjust by the second. In just a moment, a calm ocean can become a series of rogue waves. As a man, you are there in your small boat wondering how on earth you are going to climb up that wave before it crests. Women are life itself. They offer, literally, what it implies to be alive. Why do you really think they call it Mother Nature? Everything that shifts around you is moving energy, a form of energy that surely is uniquely female and can be accessed. But those waves for men who don't understand what it truly means to be the captain of their ship can be rocked out of the their ship - I can't tell you how often I have been tossed out of my little boat or bailed before the wave hit. But give a person a purpose, and that wave starts to appear like fun. Additionally, that wave can evoke your most important purpose.
This is the part that has changed my life completely.
Every single day I sit comfortable down and write, I am absolutely driven by a variety of energy that is very different from anything that I have experienced before. I sit in my little chair outside on my porch...close my eyes, and breathe as deep down into my stomach as I can. I find that density - that solidity - that love - that emptiness. There's this type of energy that if you focus upon it deep enough, it's almost a low frequency lull...that is incredibly deep and powerful. A wavelength that has existed far before everyone and one that willbe here forever after. I will feel it circulate through me sometimes when I am on the mat. Then, I open and observe the things that are going on around me or take the time to run through the days events - utilizing all the amazing things that adjusted - and get impressed by all of that energy. That energy runs straight through my writing - and yet, all at the same time, I am here, fully grounded in my place - living as if I was in fact already dead.
Fear, in my heart, disappears.
There I solidly am grounded, in my deepest purpose, totally and definitely electrified by the women around me and that female energy...creating, loving intensely and open to all doubt. It's this dynamic, the one between the male and the female - and my using both - that has taught me more than anything else. This has opened me up, deeply changed my relations, and helped me continue to discover parts of myself that I never knew existed. Floods of great people have showed up in my life and I am able to see the entire thing morphing, only to know that it will all change and pass...and that really is perfectly O.K.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website devoted to spreading positive high-quality content to those who need a little spark and motivation in their lives. In celebration of the amazing women in his life, he developed a post dedicated to strong women quotes to celebrate just how much we can learn from having women in our lives.
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